August 12th, 2008 by Jiles

So what qualities do women want in men? What they’ve always wanted and always will want. Women want real men, men that are in control and don’t ask for permission to do anything. They don’t want to be in charge, they want someone to be in charge of them.

First of all, women want you to be confident in your self. So, if you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off.

Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around. They don’t want to talk about what you are going to do, they just want you to lead the way and do it.

They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional. So if you are the kind of guy that has a hard time keeping his emotions to himself, you are going to have to work on it.

They want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring and dull. Just because you are into collecting stamps or collecting model planes, it does not mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your hobby.

Women want you to make them laugh. So again, you have to be entertaining and fun.

They don’t want to know everything about you all at once, they want to wonder. So, no matter how tempting it may be you don’t have to tell them you whole life story. Women want to keep guessing.

They want you to have more to talk about then “the game last night”, they want you to be interesting. They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to have a life goal or something you are trying to achieve. In other words, they want you to know what you want from life.

July 10th, 2008 by Jiles

Before asking her out for a date, try to have some conversation together. This will be an opportunity for you to discover if your personalities and ideas are attuned with each other, before you do decide to ask her out for a date. When calling through the phone. Don’t forget to mention to her the conversations you had. This will give her the impression that you do listen, making her feel important. Then if you feel that it is time to ask her, go ahead; ask gently, not in a demanding manner. Never ask a girl out on a date in front of others, like her friends.

During the date:

Look good, be neat. Put extra effort to the way you look. Take the time be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well. It must correspond to the place with which your date is set. Make a good impression, so you can charm her and she can be proud of you.

Do not be late. Prepare for the big day ahead. Make the necessary reservations and planning for your date. If you have planned for it, she will be impressed that you did put some effort on your night together. Be sure that during the big day you have no appointments so you won’t be cramming and be on time.

Be polite. Be sure to make her feel good by complementing the way she looks. And when seated at the table, turn your cell phone off. This will signal to her that you are very much interested in your moment together.

Say her name. Make it a point to say her name every so often in your conversations, to make her feel at ease and special.

Smile. Aside from putting up a positive attitude, your smile is an indication that you are happy to be with her.

Have a Sense of Humor. Making a woman laugh means you have won half your battle. This means that she is having a nice time and creates a positive atmosphere. This will be an occasion she would remember, because she had fun!

Be attentive. Listen to what she has to say, do not interrupt. Let her finish, before you state your opinion and make eye contact.

Be honest. Let her get to know you by telling her what you do and what interests you. If she does not like you for who you are, then she is not worth your time. Show interest in her too, by asking her about her work, hobbies and her likes. Be sensible and honest in initiating such conversations.

Relax. Do not worry that your date is not having a good time. Just manage yourself well and enjoy the evening. Keep the conversations open and ask questions. Be sincere.

Do not pretend. Pretending to be somebody that you’re not will not work in the long run. The truth will always come out sooner or later. It is a rewarding feeling if someone is drawn to you for who you really are.

Never compare. It will be very unfair of you if you compare your date to your past girlfriend. Keep in mind that she is a totally different person with her own personality. Take the time to discover her; you might be pleased if you do. Comparing won’t get you anywhere.

Never tell your date about the break-up of a previous relationship. Bury the past and move on. Here is a woman in front of you who is interested to know you more. Get to know her too, initiate a conversation that could lead to a common interest.

Enjoy. Dating should be exciting and relaxing. A woman can sense if you are enjoying your time with her or not. Don’t stress yourself trying so hard to make it the perfect date because it won’t be. But you both can enjoy it. After all, you did invite her out because you liked her in the first place. Be spontaneous and have fun.

June 30th, 2008 by Jiles

The first date is crucial to the outcome of the relationship. The place you go and what you do for your first date can often be as important as what you talk about. Take her to do something she enjoys and everything else will likely fall into lace, go somewhere boring and you will have a hard time making her happy.

So, without further ado, here are some great first date ideas:

Take a drive down to the beach and walk and talk. It’s a cheap date and a good way to find out about the other person.

Ring up your local pool hall, find out when it’s the quietest and go have a game of pool together.

Go to mini golf. The beauty of mini golf is there will be a lot of other couples around as well and families, so it makes for a comfortable setting.

Take your date to a concert. If you’ve been friends with this person for a while, you’ll know what he or she likes and you can work on that. If you don’t know the person well,

Take your date on a picnic by the water. Make sure there are plenty of rest rooms and shelter around just in case.

Go go-karting. This is a great way to find out if your date will try just about anything once.

Take your date golfing. Find a local golf course that caters to beginners and do only 9 holes.

Go to the golf driving range. This is probably a better idea then golfing, it’s cheaper, shorter in time and more fun.

Have your palms read. Most women find this sort of thing very interesting.

Take a limo ride around the city. To find the best deals, use the Internet to find local companies with websites.

Go to a roof top or revolving restaurant. Eating outdoors always makes things more memorable, just remember to make a booking first.
Go to a local crafts fair. Ring up your local tourism centre and find out what’s happening in your area.

And there you have it, with the above list you should never be short of ideas on where to take your first date!